Life — and entrepreneurship — rarely go exactly as planned.
We set our goals, map our journeys, and tell ourselves that if we just plan well enough, things will work out perfectly. But sometimes, the universe has its own sense of humor.
In April 2019, I learned this firsthand.
I had been looking forward to a long-awaited two-week vacation in Fiji. I had the picture-perfect vision in my mind: sunshine, beaches, and peace. Instead, I got rain. Not just a drizzle — a full-blown monsoon. For three days straight, I watched water pour down the windows of my hotel room while I refreshed weather apps that showed no relief in sight.
I remember thinking, “This can’t be how my vacation goes.”
That’s when the first lesson of that trip came to life — one that I believe every entrepreneur can relate to.
Lesson #1: If You Don’t Like the Situation, Do Something About It
After three days of endless rain, I made a decision: I wasn’t going to sit there and hope for the sun. I was going to chase it.
I looked up flights, found a room at the InterContinental in Sydney, and within hours, I was on a plane headed toward sunshine. It wasn’t part of the plan. It was an unplanned expense. But it was a decision rooted in something powerful: agency.
I couldn’t control the weather — but I could control my response.
And that, I’ve learned, is the same mindset every entrepreneur needs.
Your business plan might be perfect, your strategy might make sense, and your timing might feel right — and yet, the market shifts, clients cancel, or the economy surprises you.
When that happens, you can either sit in the rain and complain that it’s not fair, or you can book a flight to somewhere brighter.
The truth is, adaptability is an entrepreneur’s superpower.
Sometimes the best business decisions (and life decisions) are made not when things go right, but when you refuse to let things go wrong.
Yes, Sydney cost more money than staying put in Fiji — but I made that money back later. What I could never make up was the lost joy of sitting through two weeks of frustration when I had the power to change my circumstances.
Entrepreneurship — and life — rewards movement.
It rewards those who act, who adapt, who pivot with grace.
Lesson #2: Authenticity Is Magnetic
I thought the first lesson would be the most powerful one I took home from that trip. I was wrong.
When I arrived at the InterContinental Sydney, bags in hand and heart lighter than it had been in days, a car drove by blasting reggaeton music — loud, unapologetic, joyful. I smiled. But it didn’t stop there. Over the next few days, as I explored the city, I heard Latin music playing out of cars multiple times.
Now, I’m not someone who lives under a rock — I knew reggaeton was popular globally. But somehow, hearing it in Australia — halfway across the world from where I was born in Ecuador and grew up in Brooklyn — hit differently.
It reminded me of something I had forgotten:
Our culture is not “other.”
Our voice is not small.
Our energy is global.
At that point in my career, I had spent six years in Salem, Oregon, trying to build my orthodontic practice and brand. I had achieved success, but I was still wrestling with a quiet, exhausting question that many entrepreneurs face: “Am I being myself… or am I trying to fit in?”
I had been working hard to attract patients, find my niche, and stand out in a competitive field. But in that process, I had also been trying to blend in — to present myself as what I thought a “professional orthodontist” should look and sound like.
Yet there I was, thousands of miles from home, smiling at the sound of reggaeton echoing through the streets of Sydney, and it hit me:
I didn’t need to blend in.
I needed to be me.
When I came back from that trip, I stopped apologizing for my heritage and started celebrating it — even in my business.
I began playing Latin music in the office. I hosted themed dress-up days that celebrated our culture — “Coco Day” (inspired by the Disney movie) and “Quinceañera Day.” I infused my culture, energy, and joy into my workplace.
And do you know what happened?
My patients loved it.
They mentioned the music in their Google reviews. They smiled wider during their visits. They felt my energy shift — because authenticity is contagious.
The Entrepreneur’s Takeaway: Pivot Fast, Be Real
When I look back, that trip to Sydney wasn’t just a vacation — it was a masterclass in entrepreneurship.
It taught me that success isn’t about sticking to the plan.
It’s about trusting yourself enough to pivot when the plan no longer serves you.
And it taught me that authenticity isn’t a branding strategy — it’s a business advantage.
When you stop trying to blend in and start showing up as your whole self, people feel that. They connect with you not because you’re perfect, but because you’re real.
Whether it’s rain in Fiji or a slow month in business, the lesson is the same:
Don’t wait for conditions to change — be the change.
And when you show up as who you truly are, the right people, opportunities, and experiences will find you — sometimes halfway across the world.
Final Thought
That trip started with disappointment and ended with revelation.
I went chasing the sun — and found myself instead.
So the next time life rains on your plans, don’t just wait for it to stop.
Book your metaphorical flight to Sydney.
Change the scenery. Change the music. Change the story.
Because sometimes, your best moments — and your most successful chapters — begin the moment you decide to stop waiting and start moving.